A weed is a plant that has mastered every survival skill except how to grow in rows~Doug Larson
There I am a weed! I never followed the crowed always had to stomp away, and imprint my foot steps. This always created a path for disaster. In my mature age, I finally realized why.
It was not the path I chose that made me unhappy but the thoughts of it.
~The primary cause of unhappines is never the situation but your thoughts about it~Eckart Tolle
I was happy when I chose and still happy! But! Yes But! There is someone who always has to have an opinion, a judgement look and worst make trouble for you for not conforming to the way of things.
All my life I have been combatting these creatures. They are still there. But! Guess what no more. I finally realized how happy I am just the way I am. So, even though I did not turn out as I or everyone thought I should have, could be, I am. And I had help along the way!